Why we're here
Last updated September 2026
Indian Christian Dating exists for one reason: to help Indian Christians find someone to marry, and to do it in a way that honours God rather than working against Him.
Marriage is a covenant
We don't treat marriage as a lifestyle choice or a match of preferences. Scripture treats it as a covenant — two people becoming one, before God, for life.
Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother, and shall join with his wife, and they will be one flesh.
That belief shapes everything here. It's why we ask about your family's role, your timeline, your church, and whether you would marry outside your denomination — not to judge the answers, but because those are the questions that decide whether a marriage can actually be built. Most apps ask what you like. We ask what you're building.
Made for our community
If you grew up Indian and Christian — Mar Thoma, Syro-Malabar, CSI, Pentecostal, Orthodox, Baptist, or a church with no label — you know the particular loneliness of this search. The aunties have run out of names. The wider apps are full of people who don't understand why your parents' opinion matters, or why you go to church at all. And the matrimony sites reduce you to a row in a spreadsheet.
We are small on purpose. Profiles are reviewed before they appear to other members, so the community stays intentional rather than becoming another endless feed.
How we want people treated
Someone on the other side of a profile is a brother or sister, not a product. That means answering honestly, passing on someone kindly, and never treating a person as disposable because a screen makes it easy.
Love is patient and is kind. Love doesn't envy. Love doesn't brag, is not proud, doesn't behave itself inappropriately, doesn't seek its own way.
We would rather have a hundred members who treat each other like this than ten thousand who don't.
If you have been waiting a long time
Some of you have been praying about this for years. You have watched friends marry, sat through the questions at every wedding, and wondered whether you were somehow passed over. We want to say plainly: you are not forgotten, and your waiting is not evidence that God has stopped working.
But those who wait for Yahweh will renew their strength. They will mount up with wings like eagles. They will run and not be weary. They will walk and not faint.
Rejoicing in hope; enduring in troubles; continuing steadfastly in prayer.
We can't promise you a spouse. Nobody honest can. What we can promise is that we will not waste your time, sell your attention, or pretend a number on a screen is the same thing as being known.
Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.
What we ask of you
- Be honest, including about the parts you'd rather round up.
- Be kind to people you pass on. It costs nothing.
- Pray about it more than you scroll about it.
- Tell us when something is wrong — we would rather hear it early.
Scripture quoted from the World English Bible. Questions, doubts, or something you'd like us to pray about? Write to inquire@indianchristiandating.com.